Article: Our most intimate marriage survey ever: would you rather renew your vows or get a bigger rock? Cheat on your guy or be cheated on? More than 1,000 married women weighed in on these and other hot topics in a Redbookmag.com poll; see how your answers stack up and hear how women on each side explain their decision.(Married Life Special!)

Would you rather ...

[1] Get an hour-long massage from your husband or a professional masseuse?

 
A masseuse   59% 
My husband   41% 

"I'd prefer a professional. My husband rubs me like he's attacking a side of beef."

Andra Lahr, Texas, married five years

"A massage from my husband would be sensual and relaxing--and just the beginning of a whole night of fun."

Kelly Moran, Pennsylvania, married two years

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