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Article: Kissing dating goodbye
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- India Abroad
- Article date:
- June 11, 2004
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Shah, Anita
India Abroad
06-11-2004
Why is dating wrong? Most parents of American-born or American-raised desi
teenagers struggle for a satisfactory answer to this question.
I was also frustrated with my parents' anti-dating stand. They seemed to
have no line of reasoning to support their stance.
But recently when I broke up with my boyfriend, who I had been seeing for a
year, I realized a few things. I really thought about what I - not my
parents - believed in and why my beliefs that made sense.
I also thought about the obvious holes in the American philosophy on
dating. For instance, it's a common belief one should date many partners
before settling down with one. The reasoning: so one discovers ...