Article: Repeat after me: do you come here often? A dating guru in New York is teaching gay men how to meet people and form relationships.

A dating guru in New York is teaching gay men how to meet people and form relationships. David Colman reports

Repeat after me: do you come here often?

Finding a partner in the gay community has never been harder, and it is making people unhappy, according to Manhattan's only gay dating therapist. "There is a revolution going on," says James Sullivan, 55. "The 1970s were a decade of sexual freedom, the 1980s one of Aids and grief, and now there's a shift from a scene of bars and cruising to dating, romance and long-term partnerships. And a lot of gay men have been caught off guard by it."

Sullivan feels that, at least as far as courtship and

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