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Article: When is it OK to date her best friend's ex? Dear Beth:
- Article from:
- The Boston Globe (Boston, MA)
- Article date:
- April 25, 1995
CopyrightCopyright 1995 The Boston Globe. Provided by ProQuest LLC. (Hide copyright information)
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My best friend broke up with her boyfriend one year ago after a
three-year relationship. She isn't over him. Lately he and I have
been talking every day. We both want to get closer, but neither of
us wants to hurt her. I feel like I'd be passing up a wonderful
relationship but can't risk her friendship. Is it possible to have a
relationship with both of them without hurting anyone?
STUCK IN THE MIDDLE
Not in the short run, but maybe in the long one. She's already
feeling hurt about him because she still likes him. She'll be even
more hurt if you go out with him, because she'll feel betrayed by you
also. Many people can get over being hurt like this and learn to
accept a different kind of ...