Article: Marriage a la mode Today's debate over same-sex marriage assumes that Western cultures have always agreed on what it means to wed. But history tells a different story.

Marriage is sleeping in a room that's too hot next to someone who's sleeping in a room that's too cold.

A few years ago, I sent Reader's Digest that one-liner about marriage and found out that it had been published when the magazine sent me a check. But my real joke was on Reader's Digest: I'm a woman whose lifetime thermostatic debate is with another woman.

So am I married? Yes, according to my climate-control definition, but no, according to the law. Surprisingly, this disagreement, between the inside and outside definitions of marriage, runs throughout the institution's history. The story of the line between public and private marriage is therefore also a story of how marriage has ...

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